Arguing

How to say it so they can hear it

By Dan Gregory   “You can’t handle the truth!” So said Jack Nicholson in A few good men. And he’s right. The truth is; we are all delicate flowers wrapped in paper-thin skins, indulging unconscious (and occasionally conscious) biases and prejudices. Furthermore, to add insult to injury, half of us are below average intelligence! So, did…

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Influence: How to argue

One of the principle problems we face in an argument is that we get caught up in a “win at all costs” mindset. In other words, our survival brain takes over and we become driven by protecting territory and less concerned with achieving a successful outcome. However, if we want to be more effective, persuasive…

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